God created the concept of male and female to create the kind of family that would maximize fruitfulness and multiplication and that over generations of collective effort would subdue and rule the created order.
Pryor argues that lacking a strong symbolic depiction of fatherhood has left us "untethered the concept of fatherhood and masculinity from anything objective and leaves us vulnerable to following the ever-changing depictions of fatherhood and masculinity invented by modern cultural sensibilities."
Pryor's doesn't get too far into what that "objective" vision of fatherhood and masculinity looks like in this piece, though we do get a reference to "the beautiful biblical balancing of the life-giving presence of motherhood and the training, territory expanding, and leadership of fatherhood." So this modern fatherhood typified by Bandit is all backwards--
It empties the father character of all the elements of the traditionally masculine father we’ve grown uncomfortable with, and at the same time, it provides freedom for the mother to get out in the world and explore her individual passions.
Pryor has apparently gotten into this elsewhere, and he does acknowledge that even among Christians, his beef with Bluey is a minority view.
Pryor's argument hinges on a feature of right wing thought. It's the belief that there is One Right Answer to life's big questions (in this case, "what should fatherhood look like") and that this One Right Answer is "objective" and unaffected by human society and culture. A video about raising boys with biblical masculinity includes the tag line "it's NOT a social construct.".
I don't want to go down the rabbit of either biblical inerrancy or cultural views of family roles (as parsed for various classes and cultures and ages etc). But Pryor is following in the footsteps of plenty of cultural conservatives who identify what they are comfortable with in cultural roles and then identify a source (the bible, pseudo-science, their own personal genius) to cement the notion that their personal cultural beliefs are actually the One Right Answer according to [insert authority here].
Sometimes this trick is performed in a deliberate, self-serving manner, and sometimes it comes from a sincere belief. My sense is that Pryor is sincere enough, and he seems conscious of how his ideas can be co-opted by folks who are off track. But for these folks, education can be a huge threat.
In another podcast video, Pryor explains that schools can be bad for family teams. "What I will not tolerate," he says, is when the child at school starts to think they are on another team, where they have an allegiance to their peers over their family (aka the process that most teens go through). In other words, daring to think that they have an independent life outside the family, some sort of existence in which they are not subordinate to the (properly masculine) father.
Family Teams has a ton of videos including ones that point out that girls probably shouldn't go to college, nor should a wife earn more than her husband. There is also remarkably little rhetoric about God Himself.
I occasionally bring up the 5% rule: 95% of everything is just stuff that human beings make up and then pretend is Really Important, and only about 5% of everything is Actually Important. The trick is that we don't agree on what the 5% is. There will always be folks who not only are supremely confident that they have 5% (or more) that is correct, but that it is divinely ordained by some higher authority and therefor Objectively True. In a pluralistic society, not to mention the school system that serves that pluralistic society, there will always be tension between these folks and everybody else. And they will always be arguing for their own favorite social construct and insisting that it's the One Right Answer straight from a Higher Authority. This particular social construct is problematic because it requires women and children to be subordinate to the "team leader." And that's why Bandit, the animated cartoon father who is too much like a mother, is in such trouble.
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